Writing to Your Military Pen Pal

Imagine being far from home in a country you’ve never seen before. You aren’t there to vacation. Your day-to-day responsibilities are demanding and comforts you get in the States are few and far between. Worse, you don’t get to see your loved ones.

Our troops deal with this and more. We benefit every day from the sacrifices these men and women make for us, so it’s no wonder that so many Americans want to give back in some way. Show your gratitude by sending them a note to lift their spirits.

Writing to an American Servicemember or Veteran

How to Become a Military Pen Pal

Emails, Websites, and the Internet

Several groups have set up programs that allow citizens to contact active members of the military through email, chat groups, snail mail, and even through mailed care packages.

In this day and age, we have easy access to various forms of electronics. It’s so simple to connect with a soldier through email, Facebook, or military pen pal chat sites. Sending that “thank you” can be a bright spot in your week and theirs.

Pen Pal Websites

Some sites have different schedules for pen pals that you can choose from. One in particular offers you a choice between contacting a soldier once (often done on holidays) or writing every week for 6 to 12 months. With this longer option, you really get to know the person you are writing to and they get to know you. Many people make strong connections and build lasting friendships this way. And, of course, many veterans will appreciate knowing that their efforts are valued.

Snail Mail

Snail mail adds the personal touch that cannot be sent through a laptop. If you’ve ever received a heart-felt, hand-written letter in the mail, you already know that.

It’s about seeing the loops of each letter g and the curves of the c’s and b’s, knowing that a warm hand took the time to write out each one. Handwriting is unique to each person and makes those written words more meaningful. Other materials, like photos, artwork, etc. can be meaningful as well. Anything that reminds our soldiers what they’re fighting for and what’s waiting for them back home will bring a smile to their faces.

Care Packages

With care packages, you can send all sorts of comforts that troops might not have access to, including candy bars, snack foods, small games, and many other things.Thank a Soldier by Becoming a Pen Pal

There are a few restrictions on what you can send to the field, so it’s important to check first if the items you want to send are allowable.

Many pen pal sites can tell you what is generally permissible, and many of these same sites also offer to send a package for you, which is great if you’re feeling a little indecisive about what to get or you don’t want to go through all the hassle of actually sending something off.

About Low VA Rates

Low VA Rates supports our troops, and we encourage you to take advantage of different pen pal groups. Why not make a difference in someone’s life, especially when that person has already made a difference in yours?

Feel free to share your military pen pal experiences with us in the comments below!

13 thoughts on “Writing to Your Military Pen Pal

  1. I would love a pen pal I am a US ARMY veteran Pls send me an address or two or three….

  2. I would enjoy having a pen pal to write with. My daughter was in the army, a supply sergeant. She even went to Iraq. I realize how letters in the mail can brighten ones day.

  3. I am a Viet Nam Veteran, served stateside. I would love to have a pen pal. Will go get stamps tomorrow! I loved mail call.
    Still enjoy snail mail. Brings back days of yore growing up and in the U.S. Woman’s Army Corps.
    Thanks to all that have served, do serve and will serve America.

  4. Would love to have a military pen pal..my dad and my grandfather were military men and both said sometimes the only thing they had to live for was a word from home

  5. Would love a military pen pal to chat with want to give something back for all your sacrifice to keep us safe

  6. I would love to communicate with a U.S serviceman.
    I so respect all men & women who serve.
    I’m a very outgoing positive woman who loves to laugh and make others do the same.
    I have to say my favorite thing to do is help others.
    Ty,Cathy.Illinois,formerly from S.california..

  7. Hi, my name is Harmony, I’m a civilian and I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE a snail mail pen pal or two. I’m pretty shy and easily spooked when it comes to “meeting strangers”. I’m hoping that simply writing someone(s) can help me over come that. ☺

  8. Hello, looking for a soldier to show my support. If I can make the difference in just one soldiers life, through writing a letter, it will be worth it to me.

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